When I was growing up, having a bad reputation was a shameful thing any proper young lady should strive to avoid. Don't call boys on the phone (as opposed to letting them call you) or you'll get a bad reputation. Don't wear your skirts too short or you'll get a bad reputation. Don't stay out past your curfew or you'll get a bad reputation. You get the idea.
But despite all these warnings, I have a bad reputation...just not the one my mother had in mind with her cautionary advice. Such is the burden I bear as being the only one in our circle of friends who doesn't hop out of bed at the crack of dawn.
I was up early this morning, however. It was Dale and Carol's last day here before heading north for the summer, and I intended to join Wayne and them on their morning walk at 7am. You'd have thought I wore a short skirt while calling a boy after curfew for all the fuss that created. Dale clutched his chest in a feigned heart attack upon seeing me. Carol claimed surprise and Bonnie wanted to know if I was sleepwalking. Hiram rushed for the camera, intent on taking a photo of all of us with the date and time displayed...proof that I could indeed be upright and sociable (mostly) at an early hour. This group cuts no slack.
It's a once-a-year thing, reserved for the last day before Dr. Dale and Miss Carol make their get-away...and since I did it last year, too, I suppose it's become a tradition. It wouldn't be nearly so meaningful if I walked with them at that time of day on a regular basis; we'll reserve it for the send-off.
So we walked and then sat to talk together for a few extra minutes before hugging our goodbyes and setting off in separate directions. We'll miss them. Somehow I think they'll let me come visit...even though I have something of a bad reputation. And one day of conforming to the group norm isn't going to go very far to change it either.
Or my personal favorite when we were growing up in El Dorado . . . "WHAT would people THINK!!!"
Posted by: Linda P | May 30, 2009 at 04:19 PM
Joy is indeed in the little things! So glad you had a chance to walk with your friends :) Enjoy your bad rep.
Posted by: Lee | June 01, 2009 at 10:08 AM
Or Linda, how about "What would the neighbor's say?" LOL I am a morning person but Brenda, I can't stay up to watch the tonight show. So it evens itself out. Glad you enjoyed the walk with your friends before their send-off.
Posted by: Charlene | June 03, 2009 at 10:49 AM